Appreciating family.

I suddenly realized I understood Family tonight.

"A few days ago," (in my minds' eye!) a woman found me who had a little girl Boxer, and wanted a big boy Boxer. That was in 1990 (feeling dated here). Today she and I had the opportunity of chatting on the phone since .... oh, probably 2002? So, not that long ago. But oh, it felt like so much longer! And now she's a Grandma -- and a gorgeous one at that! Wow, what a trip. Suddenly, I'm my Mom's age -- a quarter of a century ago.

And another family this week -- "Dad" worked with my ex-husband -- and we all used to go camping together, enjoying bar-b-que, s'mores and boating. Today he accepted my friend request, and I went and looked at his pictures of his grand babies -- three of 'em! Like WOW. When did THAT happen???

A horsey-girlfriend from high school had to dash off from chatting the other night because she had to get her grandson to sleep. Grandson?? Hey guys -- I have a 13 year old daughter and you've got grand babies! Wow. I think I started way later than you! Oh, yeah ... I remember. I made a different choice then, and after looking at all those cute kids, I feel so blessed that I might get to know who they are -- like I get to spend time with my nephews. I could feel a little sad, but then I pray I don't have grand babies too soon! Lord help me, no!!

These are just three of the relationships in the last week that have reconnected. We are all spread out all over the place -- but I've never stopped missing the people to whom these virtual letters are sent. It reminds me of the pen pals I had as a teenager!  And I'm sharing my friends lives, chatting on the phone, planning day trips to visit. Wow.

FaceBook is such a great community and it's awesome at bringing families together. What an incredible blessing.

XOXO

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